![]() ![]() Not just what I also call “Acceptance Love” where you just accept that this is as good as it’s going to get, and begin to live out your passions and romance elsewhere.īut a passionate, joy filled love that continues to grow each and every year. Not what I call “Tolerant Love” where you do your best to love your spouse simply for the kids. I can tell you though, with help from an EMS, and adjoining Hope for Healing Class, I am more in love with my wife Samantha than ever before. My continual struggle to save our marriage had ultimately ended and I was simply living out the duplicity, with internal shame and confusion, cowardly allowing the affair to continue. But as a wife, I was unfulfilled due to my own self absorption and perpetual need for affirmation I had allowed in my life. She was a great best friend to several, and a very kind listening ear to many. ![]() I also knew she was an exceptional, almost unparalleled mother to our children. Upon D-Day (the day of disclosure of my affair), if you were to ask me if I was madly in love with my wife at the time, I think I’d have to be honest and say that I was not. ![]() Not only from a clinical perspective is it possible, but from a personal, experiential perspective, it is possible for our hearts to beat with passion, romance, and joy for our spouse whom we’ve betrayed, and possibly even fallen out of love with. The answer is a resounding YES, from personal experience. With most affairs eventually and completely blowing up, many wonder if the damage can be restored and the carnage repaired. It’s interesting that the betrayed spouse is asking this question, as they know their betrayer is distant and has allowed their heart to either temporarily or ultimately beat for another. Lately I have had many pose the question, “Do you think my spouse, who’s been unfaithful, can fall back in love with me again?” ![]()
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